ok, so I didnt replace the caliper before my trip, I brought it with me and tried something. I think my problem with these calipers is purely in lubrication of the slide pins. I lubed them when I installed them last spring but havent hit them again...well I lubed them up before the trip and they are good as new. I think mud and me washing the jeep was cleaning all the grease off and making the slides dry so that they could not open back up. They seem fine now.
What tipped me off was that I was able to just pry the caliper open after moving it a bit so it wasnt the piston stuck in the caliper just the caliper stuck on the slides.